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Wedding for Melinda and Javi

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Today started very early with the hairdresser arriving at 7am and some bride's maids arriving at 8am for last minute preparation.  At precisely 9am, we left for Payson, Utah.  After all of the parties arrived, we entered the temple at 10am.  Over 30 people were in attendance at the sealing, which was performed by Brother Burk.  Javier Sr. and I were the witnesses.  Several friends served as translators.

The Payson Utah Temple is a small magnificent edifice that graces the surrounding blue skies and mountains.  Its majesty was a beautiful reminder to maintain purity of the soul and the importance of each individual in the sight of God.

After a plethora of pictures and a small family lunch, the reception started at 5pm.  Jessica was the emcee for the evening.  She first asked Yolanda and Javier to say a few words.  Then Li-Fang and I said a few words.  Eating came next.  Then I danced with Melinda, and Javi danced with his mom.  A series of musical numbers ensued, including a solo by Javi, a solo by Melinda, a duet with the two of them, and the Urbina family dance.  The reception was unique in its incorporation of a small band and the adoption of cheesecake as the official cake.  Also, all of the decorations were homemade, courtesy of and masterminded by my wife.

As a father, symbolically giving away your daughter to the man of her dreams is a staggering large step to undertake, no matter how many times you have done it before.  The lesson each time in my life is the growth and change that is exacted within me as the father of the bride.  Each time, my mind is expanded as to the purpose of life in the eternal perspective.  Each time, I am awed at the awesome institution of marriage and the family.  Each time, my appreciation for my wife and my children and grandchildren is multiplied many fold.  Each time, I feel the heavens a little closer and the eternities a little more reachable.  Each time, the stupendous concept that one of my children is now an adult beginning to start their own family is mind-boggling.  I am grateful for the plan of happiness and the plan of families in God's eyes.  How great His wisdom and love and grace!

Congratulations, Javi and Melinda, as you embark on the amazing journey of marriage and family!  Be incredibly kind and loyal and loving to each other.  And enjoy the journey!

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